Don't make decisions based on what you want today. Poor planning leads to poor decisions. Make decisions based on what you want tomorrow. Daily you're sowing seeds towards tomorrow. An effective leader is always future focused. Be a leader at home, work, in your family, and MOST IMPORTANTLY YOUR LIFE. Think, how can you better suit your family by being a better leader. What sowing can you do? Is it praying, more serving, adding in more family time, turning off electronics for a few hours, being more involved at home, or in your kid's life, living /eating better, or simply learning to love people who trespassed against you. If you are not properly sowing for your family and your life, who is?