Many times as Christians we fear change and the unexpected. The main reason is we are not in control. The #TRUTH is that is the better ball field, at least when you are playing on God's turf. When we relinquish control to God, He is able to do miraculous wonders. When we decide we want to force life to happen for us it almost all of the time goes poorly. It's similar to my daughter when she wants to prepare her own meal. Thinking she knows everything she ends up adding water to her eggs instead of milk. The key to this is submission. When you submit your entire life to God you get out of the way, allowing God to be God.