And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. Ephesians 5:2.
The word love there is agape (ä-gä'-pā) in Greek, which means, affection, good will, love, benevolence, and brotherly love. In other words, to walk in love means to be filled with benevolence toward one's fellow brother or sister. Your attitude is your temperament or approach.
If your "good" deeds are done with the wrong mindset, one would perceive your actions as phony. To walk in love is a mindset, an attitude, and most definitely a lifestyle. It doesn't make you a push-over. It opens the door for God to use you to love those that are brokenhearted.
Say it, "My love walk includes MY attitude." When we get this down in our hearts we will get mad less and stress less. AMEN. We'll do better in ministry and life.